👧 Children & Family
Denmark is arguably the best country in the world to raise children. Here's everything you need to know.
🍼 Parental Leave (Barsel) — 52 Weeks, Paid
Denmark's parental leave system is one of the most generous in the world. The Barselslov was reformed on 2 August 2022 to give both parents equal and individual rights, with further updates in 2024.
How leave is divided under the post-2022 model (per parent):
| Block | Who | Duration | Transferable? |
|---|---|---|---|
| Pregnancy leave | Birthing parent | 4 weeks before birth | No |
| Maternity leave | Birthing parent | 2 weeks immediately after birth (mandatory) | No |
| Paternity / co-parent leave | Other parent | 2 weeks within the first 10 weeks | No |
| Earmarked parental leave (øremærket) | Each parent | 11 weeks each — use them or lose them | No |
| Transferable parental leave | Each parent | 13 weeks each — flexible | Yes — between parents |
Payment: barselsdagpenge at a maximum rate of DKK 4,865 per week (2025) from Udbetaling Danmark. Many employers top this up to full salary — check your employment contract or collective agreement.
Eligibility — the gotcha for newcomers: to receive barselsdagpenge from the state, you must have worked at least 160 hours in Denmark in the 4 months immediately before your leave starts. Newcomers who just arrived may not qualify yet — check with your kommune and Udbetaling Danmark before assuming.
Apply for barsel via your employer and through borger.dk at least 8 weeks before the expected birth.
→ Full parental leave guide (borger.dk official)🏫 Childcare — Vuggestue, Børnehave & SFO
Denmark's publicly subsidised childcare is world-class. The state covers the majority of costs — you pay a maximum of 25% of the actual cost.
| Type | Age | Max parental fee (2025) | Hours |
|---|---|---|---|
| Vuggestue (nursery) | 6 months – 3 years | ~DKK 3,756/month | Full day |
| Børnehave (kindergarten) | 3 – 6 years | ~DKK 2,226/month | Full day |
| SFO (after-school) | 6 – 10 years | ~DKK 1,400–2,200/month | After school + holidays |
| Dagpleje (childminder) | 0 – 3 years | Similar to vuggestue | Smaller setting, home-based |
Sibling discount: 50% reduction on the cheapest child's fee when you have two or more children in public care.
Income-based reduction: Low-income families pay less. The maximum fee is the ceiling — you may qualify for a significantly reduced rate.
Apply for childcare as soon as you have a CPR number — wait times in Copenhagen can be 3–9 months, particularly for vuggestue. Apply via your municipality's digital self-service portal.
→ Childcare information (borger.dk)💰 Børnecheck — Child Benefit (You Don't Have to Apply)
Børnecheck (formally børne- og ungeydelse) is a tax-free payment from the state for every child under 18. The remarkable thing: you don't apply for it. It is paid automatically to your NemKonto once your child is registered with a CPR number — quarterly for under-15, monthly from 15.
Rates (2025), per Skatteministeriet:
| Child's age | Amount | Per year | Frequency |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 – 2 years | DKK 5,292 | DKK 21,168 | Quarterly |
| 3 – 6 years | DKK 4,191 | DKK 16,764 | Quarterly |
| 7 – 14 years | DKK 3,297 | DKK 13,188 | Quarterly |
| 15 – 17 years | DKK 1,099 | DKK 13,188 | Monthly |
Quarterly payments arrive on the 20th of January, April, July, October. Monthly payments (15–17 yrs) arrive on the 20th of each month.
⚠️ The 2-year rule that catches newcomers: Full børnecheck requires 2 years of residence or employment in Denmark/EEA within the last 10 years. New arrivals receive a phased percentage:
| Time in DK/EEA | Payment % |
|---|---|
| Less than 6 months | 0% |
| 6 months – 1 year | 25% |
| 1 – 1.5 years | 50% |
| 1.5 – 2 years | 75% |
| 2 years or more | 100% (full amount) |
EU/EEA work counts towards this. Income from employment in Denmark also counts. Don't budget for the full amount until you've crossed the 2-year mark.
Your NemKonto must be set up for this to arrive. If you're new and haven't received it within 3 months of your child registering, check with Udbetaling Danmark.
→ Child & Youth benefits (lifeindenmark.borger.dk)🏫 The Folkeskole — Danish Public School System
The folkeskole is Denmark's public school system. It is free, includes school materials, and runs from class 0 (børnehaveklasse, age 6) through class 9 (age 15/16), with an optional 10th grade.
Key facts about the folkeskole:
- English is taught from 1st grade. Most children speak excellent English by class 5.
- No uniforms. Danish schools emphasise wellbeing, creativity, and independent thinking over academic competition.
- Food is not provided at most schools — children bring packed lunches (madpakke).
- Grading starts in class 8. Before that, learning is assessed through written feedback, not grades.
- Class size: average 22–24 students
Enrol your child: Contact your local municipality's Børne- og Ungeforvaltning (Children and Youth Administration). EU children have the right to enrol in the local folkeskole. Enrolment is by address.
Many international children integrate well even with no Danish — Danish children are generally welcoming, and schools provide language support (modtageklasse) for newcomer children.
🌍 International Schools in Denmark
If you plan to leave Denmark within a few years, or prefer an English-curriculum education, international schools are a good option. They are private and fees apply.
| School | City | Curriculum | Annual fee (approx.) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Copenhagen International School (CIS) | Copenhagen | IB (International Baccalaureate) | DKK 105,000–135,000 |
| Rygaards School | Hellerup, CPH | British / IB | DKK 85,000–105,000 |
| Skals Efterskole | Skals | Danish + English | DKK 30,000–60,000 |
| Aarhus International School | Aarhus | IB/Danish bilingual | DKK 80,000–110,000 |
Many employers with international staff offer school fee assistance as part of relocation packages — ask your HR department before assuming you must pay alone.